One day, trust may be firm, and the next unreliable. In other instances, it may develop silently through simple incidents. On other occasions, it can be subjected to doubt, insecurity, or external judgments. This plot revolves around a young man who, rather than discussing his concerns, chose to set up a test case to test his girlfriend. This may have appeared innocent in his mind initially. Perhaps he thought that it would bring him sanity. Instead, however, what followed was much more of a numerous stratum than he expected. The result, perhaps, was more one of trust than loyalty, more one of fear than faith.
The doubt that started it all
It may have started with minor overthinking. Uncertainty could have been aroused by a delayed response, cancellation of an arrangement, or a change of call. Rather than making an outright inquiry, he perhaps indulged in suppositions in his mind.
Why did he choose to test rather than talk
When pride or fear is involved, communication is uncomfortable. He might have believed that establishing a scenario would provide a more definitive response than a discussion. There are times when an individual just thinks that actions say more than words can say.
The plan he came up with
The concept, perhaps, was not dramatic initially. It might have been something so simple, such as presenting her with a situation to have her respond. To him, it might have been an innocent trial.
His expectations before it happened
There was likely only one thing that he pictured. Perhaps he was hoping to be reassured. Perhaps he was disappointing himself. In any case, he could have thought that he was prepared for whatever the outcome would be.
The emotional shift he felt
Rather than satisfaction, he could have been experiencing guilt that was creeping in. It is not always the case that when someone is being tested, they will not reveal more about the person doing the testing than the person being tested. It perhaps compelled him to ponder over his insecurities.
The conversation that followed
At one point in time, the honesty might have gotten into the room. The truth regarding the test was also leaked, and it may have caused tension. Such a conversation may be uncomfortable but even necessary.
Her perspective on the situation
On her part, she may have found it unjust. They say that silence is a deaf judgment, and it is sometimes like that when one is tested without their knowledge. She could have questioned why she was not doing or saying enough.
The lesson about Assumptions
Things can be assumed at a rapid rate. It is possible that what he feared was nonexistent. There are times when the narratives that human beings have crafted in their minds are louder than reality itself.
How insecurity can influence decisions
The insecurity is not necessarily easily visible. It will even disguise itself with jokes, silence, or minor tests. His actions could also be out of the desire to be sure and not to harm.
Could it have been avoided
In retrospect, a mere discussion would have been simpler. There is also the possibility that he would have gained insight rather than mistrust by sharing his concerns.
Growth that came after
Mistakes sometimes are the gateway to development. He might have learned that loyalty is not a matter that is ascertained with traps. Consistency and shared experiences are often presented to depict it.
